Second kids are a funny thing. I mean, the first kid kinda becomes a trial/error project and the second kid kinda just fits into what the first kid is already doing. Case in point: pediatrician said it's time to start putting Arianna to bed on her own...putting her down when she is drowsy and letting her fall asleep on her own. The idea being that she learns to put herself back to sleep unassisted in the middle of the night. Now, this was traumatizing with Josiah. Truly heartbreaking and well, let's be honest, I cried everytime I tried. In the end we rocked, cuddled, breastfed, and stayed by his side until he was asleep (and well, still do!) With Arianna, she's been doing this from the start. Not that I don't want to hold her until she falls asleep...I wish I could!! It's just that our routine doesn't allow for that, I don't have enough hands (although most days I wish I was an octopus!).
Our nightime routine is bath, jammies, fruit/veg pack, songs. I sing songs to the kiddos and Josiah generally falls asleep during that time, so I've started putting Ari in the bouncy chair next to us cause I'm sort of stuck when they both fall asleep on me. So by the time songs are done, Josiah is asleep, and I come back for her after laying Josiah down..she's asleep! Sometimes she wakes up in the transfer from bouncy chair to our room (she sleeps in a co-sleeper in the bed w/us for now), but then I'll lay her down and she does it again. No trauma to momma. No tears. Just simple kisses and she's asleep. Incredible. Why did it have to be so stressful the first time around? I tried so hard to "do it right" and in the end felt like a failure! Live and learn, that's what it's all about I think.
Thursday, October 18, 2012
Sleep training
Monday, October 15, 2012
Bathtime help
After a great dinner from my mom, Arianna had her first real home bath. Josiah was a willing and excited helper. He especially liked soaping her up! She'll hate me for letting him do this someday (and photographing it!) but he was so proud to be a part of it! I quickly saw that life had changed, the whole routine of things, the center of attention, the amount of hands I was going to need...but I knew we'd learn along the way. How awesome it was to tuck into our own bed knowing we had such an adventure ahead of us!
Headed home
The moment finally came when we got to load up and drive home with two little ones! It was surreal, yet felt so natural all at the same time. Ariel has never driven so carefully in his life. We were so thankful to be together and start to figure out what the new normal looked like!
Sunday, October 14, 2012
Arianna's 2nd Day
Day 2 brought more joy as we settled into the reality that this perfect baby girl was really ours! We had a quiet morning of cuddling and nursing and cuddling some more.
We then moved rooms to the new hospital because of the construction changes that were happening in postpartum. It was on the 7th floor and we had the corner "suite" thanks to help of some friends that made it all happen! Josiah especially loved his great view of the Lifeflight helicoptors coming and going.
We loved our new room and welcomed more visitors throughout the day, excited to meet Arianna. Ariel was on the phone to family and friends in the Dominican Republic bragging about his beautiful daughter!
The best view in our new room was at night overlooking Portland. If only it were under different circumstances, we would have loved to stay even longer! We couldn't wait to get back to our home the next day though and begin life together as a family of four.
Finishing out her happy birth day
I continued recovery in labor and delivery while Arianna nursed like a champion and we all got to have a cuddle. I was thankful to be feeling so well and thanks to a great team, no pain at all!
We then moved to our postpartum room which was fully decorated by the awesome labor and delivery girls. They all took such good care of me. Arianna got her first bath (which she didn't love) and we got to start dressing up or real life baby doll!
Lots of visitors came to meet and love on the new little girl. Josiah was proud to show off and have some more entertainment!
Ariel and I finished the day with a slow but steady walk with our new baby girl. What an amazing day!
Big Brother
I was so concerned with how Josiah would receive Arianna and what his reaction would be. As always happens, he far exceeded my hopes and expectations for what that meeting would be like. He jumped right into bed with me during recovery and immediately got a good look at her. From then on, he wanted to hug and kiss and hold her. My heart felt peace and warmth and full. Ahh. Two amazing babies in my arms.
Saturday, October 13, 2012
Baby Day, Part 2
There is nothing, no nothing, like hearing your little baby cry for the first time! Oh, what a relief to see her tiny body and know she was so amazing. 9 months of prayers over this little one and finally getting to meet her!
We got to cuddle and kiss on her as they finished up on me. She was a good cry-er from the start and had no problem clearing out her lungs!
Arianna then headed over to the warmer to get measured and weighed and all her name bands on. She weighed 7 lbs 9 oz and measured 20 inches long. We watched from the O.R. table as she got all set up and ready to be cuddled up again.
And then we were done. Just like that! It was so amazingly simple from my side of things. We got to head out to introduce the rest of the family, especially Josiah, to baby Arianna Sofia!
Baby Day, Part 1
Ariel and I got up about 4 a.m. so we could check in at the hospital by 6. My parents came over to stay with Josiah and get him up a bit later to meet us at the hospital before the surgery. Yes, our bag is gigantic because it has both of our things for the hospital stay, Josiah and Ariannas gifts to each other, the diaper bag, and who knows what else!
It was surreal delivering my baby with everyone I knew. I have to say it was the best hand-picked group ever! Everyone that was there is so special and it was so relaxing and encouraging heading into a c/section surrounded by people I normally work alongside. I trusted everyone so deeply and we all got to know each other a lot closer that day!
Heading into the operating room was so different this time, as it is where I normally head in with other women! With Josiah, I was exhausted from the night before being awake, so it was a fully different feeling with Arianna. I got the spinal anesthesia and everyone worked quickly to get me ready and meet the baby girl finally!
I can't say enough what an experience it was to have Ariel with me this time. Because of visa complications, he wasn't with me when Josiah was born, so this was all new territory in the operating room! It was so nice to have him by my side the whole time and to share these moments together. My mom was with us as well and got to take all the first pictures and get a first look at the little one.
Friday, October 12, 2012
Final Cuddles
So many thoughts and feelings of all that is ahead while waiting for the baby girl. For now though, we cuddle.
Sunday, August 12, 2012
Swimming
I tried getting Josiah into swim lessons but they were already full, so I started looking around at other pools and found a toddler swim time at another pool. Josiah was a little hesitant at first, but warmed up so quickly to the water! We've been a few more times now and have to bribe him to get out of the pool. It's amazing to see how quickly little ones develop at this age, how quickly they change and grow, and to be a part of it all!
Bear cuddles
I could stare at this sleeping face forever, especially when he is so sweet cuddling his little bear. Love.
Love
I knew having a child would be rewarding and exciting, but I didn't know just how much I would be able to love and care about a little one. My heart is truly overwhelmed sometimes when I watch him doing something or when we get to cuddle. As we prepare for #2 sometimes I wonder if I have the capicity to make room in my heart for another, but I have been assured that the heart just grows...as I've seen it do with Josiah. I've learned a whole new amazing level of love that I could have never experience without having kids and look forward to the adventures ahead as a family of 4.
Favorite things
Josiah LOVES the summer outdoors and all that he is able to do...these are just a few of his favorites!
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Grow, baby, grow
This little one is growing and growing. I can't believe there are still 2 months left...because it seems there is no room left in my belly! It has been such an amazingly smooth and easy pregnancy. The only scares come from working and terrify myself with all the "what ifs" and unknowns that happen with pregnancy. Working in high-risk labor and delivery which takes on lots of babies with problems, I have to remind myself to separate my pregnancy from theirs. The things I see are neither common nor the norm, but it sure seems like it when I'm surrounded by it all 3 times a week. But therein lies the point where I grow in faith that my God will give me all that I need, whatever the situation. I have seen and overcome great things in life, seen miracles worked, watched amazing things happen. I know my God is going to lead me and provide all that I need, forever. So I try to just enjoy the ease of this pregnancy and keep dreaming about my little baby girl.
Saturday, June 23, 2012
Zoo
The zoo is yet another place that has come more alive now that Josiah is older! He had so much fun visiting all the animals and just watched them so intently. He has now perfected his monkey sound as those were by far his favorite! He laughed so much as they swung around and said "uh oh" as they dropped to the ground. This kid is amazing, and more than watching all the zoo animals, I found myself just watching him..waiting to see his reaction!
Future Pilot
My aunt and uncle have a plane and so we went and visited them at the hanger after a trip with my parents. Josiah was so impressed and gave a big "ooooh!" as soon as he saw the plane up close! He loved getting inside and being a pilot...I think he might have a big career ahead of him!
Newport Marathon
My brother ran the Newport Marathon again this year so we all headed to the beach for the weekend! We stayed in a house right on the ocean and it was so fun to all be together!
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